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	<title>Comments on: Urban Anonymity</title>
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	<description>The life and times of Matthew and April Bauer</description>
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		<title>By: Jessica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 03:28:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had a great time when we visited SF last year.  Being one of the places I've always wanted to go, the city offered far more ethnicity and culture than anywhere I've ever seen.  Small town Nebraska doesn't give you alot of that.  We had some crazy experiences trying to navigate the BART, the crazy cab drivers, and the Rastas in Golden Gate Park off Haight-Ashbury, but it was a great time.  I have a love for big cities, Vegas, SF, and NYC, but visiting is probably enough for me.  I don't know if I have what it takes to actually live in one.  And I do so enjoy coming home.

Jess</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had a great time when we visited SF last year.  Being one of the places I&#8217;ve always wanted to go, the city offered far more ethnicity and culture than anywhere I&#8217;ve ever seen.  Small town Nebraska doesn&#8217;t give you alot of that.  We had some crazy experiences trying to navigate the BART, the crazy cab drivers, and the Rastas in Golden Gate Park off Haight-Ashbury, but it was a great time.  I have a love for big cities, Vegas, SF, and NYC, but visiting is probably enough for me.  I don&#8217;t know if I have what it takes to actually live in one.  And I do so enjoy coming home.</p>
<p>Jess</p>
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		<title>By: A Free Man</title>
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		<dc:creator>A Free Man</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2008 05:31:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just want to go on the record as saying that crazy people are one of the things that I really enjoy about public transport. Makes the slog of the daily commute bearable. `</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just want to go on the record as saying that crazy people are one of the things that I really enjoy about public transport. Makes the slog of the daily commute bearable. `</p>
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		<title>By: DeAnna</title>
		<link>http://www.bauerconfidential.com/2008/08/17/urban-anonymity/comment-page-1/#comment-845</link>
		<dc:creator>DeAnna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 15:09:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Myself, I too have lived in both the big city, small towns, suburbs, and even spent a year living out in the country.  I really don't see a major difference in how "nice" people are.  My explanation for why we encounter more rudeness in the big city is simply due to population density.  When you encounter more people, you encounter more unpleasant people.  

That said, recently I've been encountering the opposite.  I moved from a part if the city dominated by affluent white folks to a much more poor, ethnically diverse area.  One would maybe think that people would be less nice hear due to fearfulness since this part of Seattle has problems.  There are gangs, crime, drugs, homelessness... you know, typical urban problems that are much more apparent in this part of town.  Well, the people here are way more friendly than in the upper class part of town.  I never met my neighbors in the Fremont neighborhood and certainly never chatted with strangers on the street or on the busses.  Here, I meet new people daily.  I chat with interesting people on the bus.  Everyone talks on the bus.  None of that commuting in silence in this neighborhood.  And I'm stopped on the street all of the time.  Mostly by older black men wanting to flirt, but shrug, at least they are friendly.  

So currently, I'm feeling a real sense of community in this area that I've never felt anywhere before.  I go to community meetings now!  And i want to help the gang kids stay out of trouble, but I don't know what can be done...  So I keep chatting with my neighbors about our problems.  This is something that I cannot imagine happening in Fremont, Columbia, or the suburbs of California.  No one seemed to take the time to notice they even had neighbors.  Everyone was too busy and used their cars as a wall between themselves and the rest of the world.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Myself, I too have lived in both the big city, small towns, suburbs, and even spent a year living out in the country.  I really don&#8217;t see a major difference in how &#8220;nice&#8221; people are.  My explanation for why we encounter more rudeness in the big city is simply due to population density.  When you encounter more people, you encounter more unpleasant people.  </p>
<p>That said, recently I&#8217;ve been encountering the opposite.  I moved from a part if the city dominated by affluent white folks to a much more poor, ethnically diverse area.  One would maybe think that people would be less nice hear due to fearfulness since this part of Seattle has problems.  There are gangs, crime, drugs, homelessness&#8230; you know, typical urban problems that are much more apparent in this part of town.  Well, the people here are way more friendly than in the upper class part of town.  I never met my neighbors in the Fremont neighborhood and certainly never chatted with strangers on the street or on the busses.  Here, I meet new people daily.  I chat with interesting people on the bus.  Everyone talks on the bus.  None of that commuting in silence in this neighborhood.  And I&#8217;m stopped on the street all of the time.  Mostly by older black men wanting to flirt, but shrug, at least they are friendly.  </p>
<p>So currently, I&#8217;m feeling a real sense of community in this area that I&#8217;ve never felt anywhere before.  I go to community meetings now!  And i want to help the gang kids stay out of trouble, but I don&#8217;t know what can be done&#8230;  So I keep chatting with my neighbors about our problems.  This is something that I cannot imagine happening in Fremont, Columbia, or the suburbs of California.  No one seemed to take the time to notice they even had neighbors.  Everyone was too busy and used their cars as a wall between themselves and the rest of the world.</p>
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		<title>By: April</title>
		<link>http://www.bauerconfidential.com/2008/08/17/urban-anonymity/comment-page-1/#comment-841</link>
		<dc:creator>April</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 23:19:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It seems as if most people around here didn't grow up with the "Golden Rule."  I have a lot of theories about this, but none of them definitive.  When someone seems to be particularly self-involved, we often call them a Berkeley native.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It seems as if most people around here didn&#8217;t grow up with the &#8220;Golden Rule.&#8221;  I have a lot of theories about this, but none of them definitive.  When someone seems to be particularly self-involved, we often call them a Berkeley native.</p>
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		<title>By: Nichole</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nichole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 13:26:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the best we can do regardless of location is to be kind and courteous to others and hope that it leaves them in a better frame of mind. That "Golden Rule" thing.

I miss "College Town," too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the best we can do regardless of location is to be kind and courteous to others and hope that it leaves them in a better frame of mind. That &#8220;Golden Rule&#8221; thing.</p>
<p>I miss &#8220;College Town,&#8221; too.</p>
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